Anyone that has ever tried to win back an ex-girlfriend will probably tell you that it is no easy task and they would be right. In the vast majority of cases it would probably be easier to find a new girlfriend than it would be to get back an ex but, to some the effort is worth it.
As getting back an ex can be so difficult, it is best to be certain that that is what you really want and that no other girl would fill the void that you are feeling.
Although an ex-girlfriend can be won back, most guys fail because they take the wrong approach to winning her back, they either beg, threaten or bring up the past, all of which have been proven to be ineffective at best and disastrous at worst.
Most girls love to see pets beg but it is not something that they want to see a man do and if they do, they immediately lose any respect they may have for that man. So this approach rarely works and if it does, the renewed relationship is always short lived.
Threatening her is always bad and making threats to do something to yourself because you can’t go on without her is almost as bad as, if she does return, it once again will only be for a short time, under a feeling of fear.
You would think that bringing up the past should work as you would only mention the good times you shared together but apparently, according to recent studies, although you may not mention the bad times, any recollections of the past also ignite memories of the bad times for the girl and she will more than likely be reminded of the reasons why the relationship had to end.
So, by all means apologize for whatever but never beg or threaten and keep the conversation about the future, the good times you could share together and do not dwell on the past.
Of course whichever approach you do chose to make, it will depend on whether you finished with her or she finished with you but when considering this remember, if you finished with her because she was cheating, to all intents and purposes, she had already finished with you when she started cheating and so treat it that way.
Many times a girl will break up because they feel there is no romance in the relationship and so the suggestion of a candlelit dinner or a quiet picnic in the countryside may go a long way towards showing that you can and are prepared to change for the better but, if this does work, remember to keep that spark of romance alive in order for the relationship to grow instead of ending in another break up.
Of course, if the girl broke up because she thought you were too intense, a slower, more laid back approach would probably be better and more effective.